I recently started hanging out with my old friend (Let’s call her Hannah) from high school again. We had a big falling out and I never thought we’d end up being friends again, but she came to check out my church once a few months ago and really loved it. She had gone through a phase in the past where she claimed to be an atheist after her father died, so I was really happy for her and decided to give her a second chance as my friend. Everything had been going ok until I told her about this guy from my church (Let’s call him Mark) who I sort of like. She then proceeded to take my phone off of me and text him that I like him. (I can do that for myself thank you very much, I was still deciding whether or not I would consider dating him because of some baggage he has) Well, that opened up a whole night of texting from Mark, and Hannah started to get annoyed (hey, her idea, right??) so she sent him her number and told him to text her because she was bored! So, she was texting him the same time as me and even kept texting him hours after I fell asleep that night, and then that continued into the next day, on my birthday might I add. Then at my party last weekend (I set up a projector to watch a movie in my backyard) Mark sits on the ground beside me and Hannah happens to be on the other side of him and she scoots over so far next to him that their arms and legs are touching. Oh yeah, I forgot to say that Hannah has a boyfriend who she’s been with for four years. Now I just got a text from Hannah saying that she’s coming down Saturday night (she lives an hour away) to go to church with me the next day, and that she asked Mark to drive her home because her boyfriend won’t be able to pick her up. I don’t understand people like her! I know that if this were flipped around and her boyfriend was texting a girl one of his buddies liked and sitting next to her and flirting with her, Hannah would freak out, and so would the guy who liked the girl. She’s supposed to be my friend and she’s doing everything a friend shouldn’t. She’s using me again just like she did in high school and I know she’s only going to my church for the social scene and not to become a Christian because she told me the other day that she and her boyfriend were thinking of checking out Buddhism. That makes me really sad and I want her to get saved, but at the same time I just want to tell her to get out my life! Ugghhh! What should I do?
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